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23rd Jan 2024

Ending the Silence: A Death Doula’s Take on Suicide and Mental Health S7 E3

Deeper Conversations about Mental Health, Grief, and Education

In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine Lindsay talks to death doula Jill McClennan about ending the stigma around suicide and mental health. Despite societal norms, they delve deep into the importance of opening up about grief and pain. They also talk about the critical role of educating children not only about suicide or death but also about understanding their thoughts and feelings. Furthermore, they discuss how societal judgment often causes certain actions and how addressing the root cause could bring about positive change. Lastly, the conversation illuminates the shortcomings of societal norms on victim-blaming and the urgent need for empathy and community support.

 

00:00 Introduction to Suicide Zen Forgiveness Podcast

00:11 The Importance of Normalizing Conversations about Suicide and Mental Health

01:00 Introducing Guest Speaker: Jill McClennan

01:52 The Importance of Conversations about Death and Dying

02:54 Personal Experiences with Grief and Loss

03:26 The Impact of Unprocessed Grief

05:05 The Unique Grief of Losing a Pet

09:23 The Importance of Honest Conversations about Grief

12:17 The Impact of Divorce and Absent Parents on Children

17:07 The Importance of Honesty and Openness in Parenting

23:14 The Need for Better Mental Health Education

25:45 The Role of Meditation and Self-Reflection in Mental Health

28:33 The Impact of External Influences on Our Thoughts

28:56 The Cyclical Nature of Life and Adaptability

29:31 The Power of Choice and Empowerment in Thought

30:04 Understanding the Spectrum of Human Behavior

30:49 The Strength in Being Different

31:44 The Struggle with Unprocessed Trauma

33:19 The Importance of Addressing Root Causes

34:16 The Power of Self-Reflection and Processing Trauma

34:50 The Challenge of Society's Expectations

36:52 The Impact of Victim Blaming

42:05 The Importance of Teaching Life Skills

45:05 Closing Remarks and Future Conversations

46:04 The Power of Community and Uplifting Each Other

47:26 Post-Show Notes and Acknowledgements

 

Jill McClennen is a certified death doula, grief coach, and the "Seeing Death Clearly" podcast host.

Jill offers compassionate support, practical preparation, and deep emotional healing to clients and their families. She provides her services in person as well as virtually.

Beyond her role as a death doula, Jill is also a trauma-sensitive yoga instructor. She incorporates movement, reiki, and shamanic healing techniques to assist clients in addressing their fears surrounding death, coping with grief, and finding peace around the end of life.

Her journey as a death doula has profoundly shaped Jill's perspective on life's priorities. This transformation fuels her mission of helping others clarify their core values, regardless of the time they have left.

Through her podcast, Jill engages in meaningful discussions with various guests about death, dying, grief, and how to live life fully. She advocates for open, honest dialogues about death, dying, and grief among friends and loved ones, including age-appropriate discussions with children from an early age.

 

https://www.endoflifeclarity.com

https://m.facebook.com/endoflifeclarity

https://www.facebook.com/groups/endoflifeclaritycircle/

http://www.instagram.com/endoflifeclarity

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillmcclennen

https://www.tiktok.com/@endoflifeclarity

https://seeingdeathclearly.buzzsprout.com

Jill C. McClennen

Death Doula - Death and Grief Coach - Podcast Host

https://www.endoflifeclarity.com

Seeing Death Clearly Podcast

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Suicide Zen Forgiveness Stories re Suicide Loss | Ideation | Mental Health | Offering Hope |Empathy for All
Sharing Stories to Offer Hope
Adding empathy and offering hope to end the silence, stigma, and shame. ~Elaine Lindsay©2021

Come along on the transformative journey of ’Suicide Zen Forgiveness,’ where host Elaine Lindsay, a suicide loss survivor and advocate, invites listeners to break the silence about mental health struggles. Elaine wants to remove the shame felt by all who are touched by suicide loss, ideation and mental health. With over 50 years of personal experience, Elaine offers candid conversations, heartfelt stories, and practical insights aimed at ending the stigma and offering hope. Each episode explores themes of resilience, gratitude, and growth, encouraging listeners to navigate life’s challenges with bravery and compassion. Tune in for a blend of wisdom, authenticity, and unwavering support on a group journey of healing, hope, and understanding.

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